2. R. He is.
The good news is : this is waaaaaay better than if you had immediently.
I met a guy recently - really nice, very attractive, and we've been texting back and forth quite a bit. But if you are married to someone you never found sexually attractive in the first place you will.
If you have formed a relationship with someone you have never been physically attracted to, it is best to gently confront the person.
Within every relationship, there are happy.